girl culture is turning around every few feet when you’re walking alone to see if someone’s following u
Learn to peep through the corner of your eye so you’re not quite so obvious when you turn.
Putting in your earphones so hopefully no random men try to talk to/harass you but not actually playing music so you can listen for footsteps/other suspicious noises behind you.
feeling like someone is following you and subtly shifting whatever object you’re holding into a better grip so you can use it as a bludgeon if the person behind you tries anything
Being fucking terrified when street lamps give you more than one shadow
just girly things~🌟
Checking reflections in windows and walking in a way that you’ll see the shadow of someone comes up behind you
Getting into the car from the passenger side because there’s a van parked by the drivers seat
Checking the backseat of your car before you get in and immediately lock the doors. Then, calling your roommate, SO, or mom so if you don’t turn up later, they know where to start looking.
Being taught at age 8 to scream FIRE if you’re being attacked because people will be more likely to respond
I’m going to post this here too bc I’ve been meditating on it a lot recently and I think it’s important.
man, people really needed to hear this huh
Going to remind myself of this every time I linger on the Orson Scott Card books I have sitting on a shelf.
literally everyone who’s interacted with the world enough to accomplish something interesting has some toxic shit buried in their life’s backyard. you can’t stay pure and get anything done. you will not be ritually tainted if you enjoy something made by a fucked up human being. please get over the superstitious purity bullshit, folks. its purpose is to isolate you and keep you ignorant.
why are the artists on ink master allowed to say shit like “i hate tattooing dark skin” like just bc you’re bad at your job doesn’t mean you get to be openly racist
indigenous artists have been successfully tattooing dark skin for thousands of years & here comes your white ass saying tattoos aren’t made for dark skin 👀
i love this. i do. and i’ll comment on it every single time. the very first artist i went to get tattooed was in Utah and the guy told me straight that color wouldn’t look good on my skin because it wouldn’t show up.
second guy i went to was in California and he said basically the same thing. Color wouldn’t look good on or show up on my skin. blah blah blah…
so months later, i’m at a tattoo convention in LA and i walk past a booth featuring tattoo artists from Taiwan and i see this BEAUTIFUL phoenix that’s just… amazingly brightly colored and beautiful and the guy asks if i’m interested and i said something about it not looking as good in black and grey and he asked why i don’t just get it in color and i said the color won’t show and he PLEADED with me to let him show me he could do it.
and he did.
and it’s fucking amazing and bright after almost 8 years now of being on my skin… all the pinks and teals and yellows and oranges… all of it. Still vibrant.
i went all the way to Taiwan years later just to get more added to it, and my leg done as well.
now, as soon as someone tries to tell me that they can’t put color on my skin, i disregard them and write them off. Sometimes (depending on how stuck up they can be) i go ahead and lift my shirt and show them my side (and now legs, and now arms) that are fully colored and vibrant and BEAUTIFUL.
and i hope it sets into their brain that just because THEY can’t do it, doesn’t mean it can’t be done.
Also… some of the people who have put the best color on me have been people who don’t normally work with dark skin (being from different countries where skin tones might be darker, but maybe not as dark as me) but they’ve been willing to TRY and they always succeed and that means a lot.
🙌🏾
There is a whole shop of black artist in Atlanta that are dedicated to tattooing darker skin. The shop is called City of Ink. The owner is a black tattoo artist named Miya Bailey. It’s been open for 22+ yrs. check em out.
This makes me so happy
When I got my thigh tattoo done (all in color by a white artist) she said tattoos darker skin tones isn’t impossible you just have to know what your doing know your color pallet and know what does and doesn’t work on their skin she lives in cali and has had a strong Hispanic clientele so my skin tone was no problem for he and my tattoo has blues reds yellow etc in it just find someone who knows what they’re doing
All I wanted was a simple butterfly and they told me it couldn’t be done in color and now im annoyed knowing what I know
Thanks to this post I was able to recommend City of Ink to a coworker who had been told the same thing for a long time. She’s since left the site, but I hope she gets the bright tattoos she’s wanted.
Charlotte Morabito “As Ireland goes #hometovoteto #RepealThe8thtoday, please remember Savita Halappanavar who died of sepsis after being denied an abortion for a pregnancy even after doctors said miscarriage was inevitable. Her death was a catalyst for this referendum. She was 31.
Six: Kenneth Zucker
Blair White*
Walt Heyer
Paul McHugh
James Cantor
R. Blanchard
Remember these names. If you see these names, shit is about to go down. Any organization that allows these people to soeak at their event is either very ignorant or willfully platforming a massive transphobe.
These are horrible people. They lie, they publish bad ‘research’, they promote abusive therapies. They have all been discredited a thousand times yet they continue to get invited by media and conferences desperate for a transphobic ‘expert’ to hide their bigotry behind.
*Blair White doesn’t claim to be a scientist so if you count transphobic pseudo-scientists, yeah it’s literally five people
“Ireland has voted by a landslide margin to change the constitution so that abortion can be legalised, according to an exit poll conducted for The Irish Times by Ipsos/MRBI.
Don’t mind me, I’m just crying buckets in the #HomeToVote tag on Twitter (tomorrow, Ireland is having a referendum on women’s reproductive rights. Expat voting in Ireland is restricted and complicated, meaning often the only way to vote (if you’re still eligible) for expats is to return home
Men and women from all over the world are returning to legalise abortion in Ireland at last, sharing their stories of packed planes and baristas handing out free coffees in response to shirts and buttons. It’s beautiful.
Check out the photos and videos on Twitter, it’s amazing!
“Unappropriated Beauty“ is a poster ad campaign tackling the issue of cultural appropriation in a non-accusatory, educational way. These adverts are size-compatible to fit in different settings, including bus shelters, billboards, mobile devices, and magazines. The goal of this project is to educate the consumers of appropriative media so that they are better equipped to decide for themselves what is and what is not cultural appropriation, and therefore lowering the tolerance for appropriation being applauded in the media.